FEAR !
Fear is one of the experiences that we all go through. It has multiple dimensions - It may be a fear of failure, fear of public speaking, fear of being left out, fear of adversity, fear of losing control, fear of parents, fear of supervisor, fear of being caught, fear of confrontation, fear of rejection, fear of death, fear of accident, fear of losing job/money/loved ones, fear of losing your edge, fear of consequence, fear of unknown.
The amount and degree of fear is situational, for some there may be lot of fear during speaking in public but might have less fear when speaking to small group.
Fear also varies over a period of time; person may have fear initially when he/she started the business and as the time passes the fear might come down.
One might develop different types of fear due to experiences in life also.
There is another type of fear that comes from danger to life itself, like when you are attacked by a wild life or getting robed at gun point.
If you notice fear is always there with you. Just take a moment and see if you can identify the presence of fear right now (don't look at the source/reason just get present!).
Fear is like snake that is there within you, if you try to fight it out through your mind it also starts fighting back. If you just leave it will be just there and will not harm you.
How to handle fear?
One way to handle fear is to look at the impact. When one is under the control of fear what it stops is "action", say for example you have the fear of failure and you want to start a business.
What fear stops is to take action towards what is required to make the business run. Fear directs your attention for survival. One of the safest ways to avoid failure is "NO – ACTION"
To handle fear what is required is COURAGE, it is not the absence of fear but it is your willingness to take action in the presence of fear. Capt. Gopinath says it in his biography narrating his experience during the war "…I spent the night walking from trench to trench under the cover of darkness. It is not that we were not sacred. Courage is the counterpoint of fear. Courage appears when in war or business one is indeed sacred."
Give space for fear and let it be.